I am in Federal court suing the parties responsible for depriving me of my natural right to parent my child and while I already have proof of some of the lies, fraud and failure of due process, I am being denied possession of my full case file, by court order, which contains all the proof I need as a Pro se litigant to prove that my child was stolen from me.
I have been erased from my only child’s life, for no reason except I believed my son’s allegations of sexual abuse, I have been denied my natural role as his mother. He is now ten years old. It’s been three years since I have seen him. I receive three updates in 3 years from my ex-husband, who clearly enjoys that this is all the contact the Court allows me. It had been ordered that I was to get these reports monthly, but I had to go back to Court to even get this. A page of words to tell me about how my precious and only child is doing. No academic reports, no legitimate health medical reports are provided to me. Nonetheless, I continue to pay my controlling, (documented) abusive, sociopathic ex-husband the required child support, as well as extras like summer camp...all the while without seeing my son and truly knowing about his life.
The Court has repeatedly denied my right to due process by blithely dismissing three separate Therapists reports that I was not mentally ill. My rights of due process are violated by the Court not telling me exactly why my therapists’ reports are not sufficient to allow reunification to begin.
And the way things are progressing, it’s clear that the Court of Bergen County obviously expects me to just accept that I will never see him again.
On July 13, 2015, I believe as retaliation to my pending lawsuit, the Court gagged me from discussing the DFYS/DCP&P connection to this case. I complied by scrubbing my website www.painfulsilence.com as well my social media of any and all comments related to their reports, workers, etc. However, the Court intends to hold me responsible for third parties who refuse to remove what they have posted. Already, one media outlet, Long Island Backstory, has adamantly refused to be censored. The order states I can be incarcerated for what they do. How can this be happening in America? I have gone to the FBI, the ACLU, the Ethics Commission, and all say the same: they have “no authority to intervene in Family Court”. My final appeal has been presented to the Supreme Court of New Jersey, with no hope we will be helped there either.
What is happening is against every principle that this country stands for. Please join me in speaking truth to power. I may be gagged, but I will not stop until the truth is known about how this protective mother was treated by Bergen County.